As kids grow up and progress through adolescence, it is common for them to rebel against their parents values. Kids will do anything as long as it is not what their parents want. I find myself walking more and more with just my dogs as my kids grow up; where in years past they were at my side as well. They have had enough walks with boring Dad - there are more exciting things to do.
I guess that is part of growing up. A good parent prepares their children to be independent.
So it seems to me that a parent must take advantage of their child's young years to encourage in them a love for life and the natural world. I have done that. My kids may not see it now, but in the future they may have memories of wandering with Dad - looking at trees, clouds, rivers, wildflowers; and sharing discoveries.
Experiences in nature contribute to the future successes of children, by building character; they also offer a glimpse of their innate character. My daughters are independent and assertive. I am sure that part of that comes from the early upbringing, spending time walking in the freedom and beauty of the Rocky Mountains with their parents.
Two incidents come to mind. One is exploring a canyon full of beautiful waterfalls. We could not find my older daughter, and became upset. This independent young girl was so entranced by the canyon and by what lie ahead that she continued up without her snail-like family. After a half-hour or so, enough time for her parents to start losing it, she came scurrying back down the trail, to be scolded by her parents.
Another time in Yellowstone my family and I hiked to Osprey falls. The last 20 or so feet to the falls were along a steep cliff. Her mom would not go. I told my daughter a story - that indians who got wet by the mist of this waterfall were the bravest of the tribe, and would be courageous their whole life. My daughters face changed from one of hesitancy to one of quiet determination. She followed me up the shelf trail to the base of the waterfall. We stood their together in the mist of the fall.
I learned something about my older daughter in those two incidents that revealed to me the nature of her character. She is brave, a leader, an achiever. I am extremely proud of her.